If you’re a loyal reader here at MenStuff, chances are good you’re an avid gamer.
Personally, I was always more into ball sports, although I still enjoy my fix of FIFA, Grand Theft Auto and Need for Speed now and then.
One fond video game memory comes from the Red Hot Chili Peppers’ Californication music video, which through the band into the premise of a video game.
I saw the video again recently and started wondering what it would be like if we chose to live our own lives as a video game, or more precisely: what video games can teach us about how to live our lives.
1. Get excited for new challenges
When was the last time you worried about beginning a new level of your favourite game? Never! You bust your nut killing the bad guys in order to reach the next level. That’s the point.
We can take a similar approach in our own lives. See new challenges as opportunities to discover new things. Know what you’re working towards, stay positive and then go kill those baddies!
2. Hit that checkpoint
Of course, within each level are checkpoints you need to reach to ensure you don’t have to return all the way to zero when you die. You know you’ve already come a long way and have some small wins under your belt.
This idea reinforces my favourite principle related to goal-setting and attainment: focusing on the process as opposed to the destination. Ask yourself: “What’s the next small step?”
3. Dying? I’ll just restart.
Think back to the last time you played a first-person shooter: you probably died a few times on the way to victory. And chances are good you didn’t die at the same stage too many times. Why? Because you learned!
In video games, we aren’t afraid of making mistakes or getting something wrong. That’s how we learn what to do next time.
However, as soon as we face real-life challenges, we start to stress and think that failure is bad.
Strive to use the same logic in your daily life: fail, learn, progress.
4. Meet new characters
In any game, you need other characters to gain valuable info in order to get to your next checkpoint.
Life is the same. Whether it’s a mentor, our friends or our partner, the people around us play a huge role in our success. Don’t be afraid to meet new people!
5. Be a badass
There’s a reason Grand Theft Auto is so popular – the map is massive, and the possibilities are endless!
It’s a big world out there, and your life is the only chance you have to see and do the things you want. Sadly, in the real world we don’t get multiple lives, so do something awesome with the one you have!